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Monday, July 19, 2004

Love, Chance and Choice

Love, Chance and Choice When we meet the right person to love when we're at the right place at the right time, that's chance. When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice. That's chance. Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of couples who get together because of this) is not a choice. That's also a chance. The difference is what happens afterwards. When will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level? That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling. If you decide to love a person, even with his faults, that's not a chance. That's choice. When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's choice. Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that's choice. Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance. But true love that lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we make. Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so true about this: "Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen." I do believe that soul mates do exist. That there is truly someone made for you. But it's still up to you to make the choice if you're going to do something about it or not. We may meet our soul mates by chance, but loving and staying with our soul mates is still a choice we have to make. We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love... BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly... Conclusion: it is not the matter how to find someone perfect to love, but how to love someone imperfect perfectly..... Love itself is a choice. Source: an email from a great friend


posted by Belutz @ 7/19/2004 04:52:00 AM | links to this post

Thursday, July 01, 2004

Free Web-based Email wars continue?

Taken from User Friendly Comic Strips Tuesday, June 29th 2004... A.J   : Hotmail just boosted its free storage allocation. Just Like Yahoo. Greg : In response to Gmail? A.J   : Yes. It's like going to a restaurant and you find out that you get a bigger plate than at the one next door. But the portions you're served stay the same. Greg : How does spam fit into this? A.J   : I guess that would be like someone vomiting on to your plate. Greg : OH GOD!! Sid   : And spam filters? A.J   : Pouring the vomit through a strainer. Greg : AAAGH!!! Sometimes big storage just not enough.... :p


posted by Belutz @ 7/01/2004 09:11:00 PM | links to this post

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